0. Why are some of your blogs password protected?

I password-protected them and only verified users (18+) can have access to them. The reason behind that is to protect myself and minors online. Here is sexualwill. Sexploration is the main focus and because it is intrinsically diverse and complex topics. Some might find certain topics “too much to take”.  As a result, only well-informed, healthy and consenting adult should consume those. The safest way for me to make sure that they are accessed by the targeted audiences is to put them on platforms and leave the verification processes to them. Another reason is that I need to be fair to my supporters. Mainly password protected posts are only accessible if you are a supporter of me (no matter what platform you use or you can buy the code in my store) I’m sorry for the inconvenience.

1. A Big Thank-you

First of all, thank you so much for dropping by. Whether you’ve watched me on youtube, my personal website, LBRY, odysee,  xtube (It’s gone… for whatever reason, xtube has permanently gone offline… ), or just simply bump into my little website from Google, Bing … etc, it doesn’t matter. I wanna say Thank you to you for reading this. 

My thoughts and story

2. What is this website for?

Good question. I wrote an thorough introduction on my homepage. In short, this website is mainly documenting my sexual adventure and exploration including sexual interests, behaviors, functions, fetishes, mental and physical sexual health. I am here to connect, learn and strive.

Long Answer: (allow me to copy and paste my intro on the main page 😅) Here, I believe that talking about sex shouldn’t be all hush-hush. (I believe human sexuality is an integral and indispensable part of life) I will tackle taboo topics head-on to raise awareness about the importance of mental and physical sexual health. From prevention to cure, and even a bit of consultation thrown in, I am here to help you navigate this fascinating yet often misunderstood aspect of human experience. I am myself still keeps learning and exploring. Now, you might be wondering, “Why the humor in all this?” Well, let’s face it – laughter is a natural aphrodisiac! I am here to educate and entertain, because who said learning about sexuality can’t be fun? By sharing my own adventures in the bedroom (or wherever the mood strikes 😅😈), I hope to inspire, entertain, and maybe even help lift the veil of stigma surrounding discussions of sexuality. After all, a good chuckle and a dose of real talk about sex can work wonders for the mind and soul. So, grab a seat, relax, and let’s explore the infinite possibilities of pleasure together!

on this tantalizing journey through the many facets of human sexuality. With a sprinkle of wit and a dash of candid storytelling, I aim to break down barriers and spark conversations that might make you blush but also leave you feeling empowered and enlightened. Whether you’re curious about sexual behaviors, looking for tips on nurturing your mental and physical sexual well-being, or just seeking a good laugh to brighten your day, Sexualwill has got you covered. Think of me as your digital confidante, your trusted friend who isn’t afraid to tackle the nitty-gritty details while keeping the atmosphere light-hearted and engaging. And hey, I know that discussing sexual fetishes or addressing struggles with sexual health can feel like navigating a minefield. That’s why we’re here to offer a helping hand, a listening ear, and a virtual shoulder to lean on. No judgment, just open dialogue and a genuine desire to support you on your personal journey towards sexual wellness. So, whether you’re a seasoned sex aficionado or someone just dipping their toes into the vast ocean of human sexuality, I sexualwill, welcomes you with open arms (and legs… well… 🤣). Let’s embark on this adventure together, armed with knowledge, humor, and an unabashed passion for all things pleasure-related. Stay tuned for more tantalizing tales, insightful discussions, and maybe even a few surprises along the way. Remember, when it comes to sexual well-being, the more we talk, the happier and healthier we become. Let’s keep the conversation flowing and the joy of discovery alive!

 

3. What’s your attitude toward sex

 

Alright, here’s my take on it! “My attitude toward sex? Well, I believe it should be embraced with open arms, pun intended! Let’s celebrate our bodies, our desires, and our pleasures. Sex is a beautiful, natural part of life, so why not enjoy it to the fullest? Remember, consent, communication, and exploration are key ingredients to having a satisfying and fulfilling sex life. So go ahead, shed those inhibitions along with your clothes, and let’s bask in the glorious realm of healthy sexual expressions together!” #SexPositive #NudistLife #SpreadLoveAndConsent 💕🌞🍑

 

4. How could you be a nudist advocate and express yourself sexually. Doesn’t that undermine your nudist advocacy?

 

This is a GREAT QUESTION. Actually, I have been thinking about this. I am a very sexually inactive person who never fell in love since I was born. Let alone sexual experiences. None. Zero. Zilch. After trying out nudism, I generally become happier and I love the fact that connections to people being more genuine and authentic while naked. While interacting with my audience, I sometimes bump into comments/private messages that are sexually centered. At first, I was a bit offended but then I thought why? Long story short, I realized that sexuality is an integral and indispensable part of life, which should not be a taboo. Posting oneself sexually is a way of sexual expression and is nothing wrong if no one is hurt and consent and respect are there. The main goal of nudism is to separate sex and nudity but not choose between sex and nudity. In short, consent and respects are the keys and I figured that a separate place for sexually related stuffs is necessary and hence, this sexualwill site is born. 😊

Being a sex-positive nudist involves embracing and celebrating both nudity and sexuality in a healthy and consensual manner. As a nudist advocate, it is essential to promote body positivity, self-acceptance, and freedom of expression. (which I think it includes sexual expression) so I think I’ll just summarize how to express yourself sexually as a nudist without undermining your position as an advocate (just my thoughts.. not the law 😅):

1. **Consent and Respect**: These two are the fundamentals and no exceptions should be make. Ensure that any sexual expression is consensual and respectful. Being sex-positive does not mean crossing boundaries or engaging in non-consensual behavior. Emphasize the importance of communication, boundaries, and mutual respect in all interactions.

2. **Separate Nudity from Sexualization**: As a nudist advocate, make it clear that nudity is not inherently sexual. Nudity is about feeling comfortable in your own skin, embracing the natural state of the body, and promoting body acceptance. By separating nudity from sexualization, one can show that sexual expression is a personal choice and not a requirement in nudist settings. (Hence a separate website/account/platform is absolutely needed)

3. **Education and Advocacy**: This is also important. I’m not sure how many people would actually see this long post… 😅😅😅. Repeating my position on this matter again and again would definitely help. Use my nudist website as a nudist advocate to educate others about the difference between nudity and sexuality. Advocate for sex-positive values that promote sexual health, consent, and diversity. However, because sexuality is intrinsically complex and diverse (think about a straight college women enjoying vanilla sex and see two grandpa fisting each other in a nudist community … she will find herself offended… ) So, within nudist community, I think it’s a good idea to be void of any sexual expressions.  By fostering an open dialogue about sexuality within the nudist community and directing them to a certain places, I can create a positive and inclusive environment for all members.

4. **Lead by Example**: Show through my actions that being a sex-positive nudist is compatible with advocating for nudism. Demonstrate how healthy sexual expression can coexist with nudist values of body positivity, acceptance, and self-expression. By leading by example, I can inspire others (hopefully I could do that) to embrace their sexuality in a respectful and empowering way.

5. **Community Building**: Foster a supportive and inclusive community where members feel comfortable expressing themselves sexually within the boundaries of nudist principles. (Just consent and respect and don’t sexualize everything… ) Encourage open discussions, workshops, and events that promote sexual positivity, diversity, and empowerment. By creating a safe space for sexual expression, you can strengthen the bond within the nudist community and promote a culture of acceptance and understanding.

In conclusion, being a sex-positive nudist means embracing both nudity and healthy sexual expression in a consensual and respectful manner. By promoting values of consent, respect, education, and community building, I think I can express myself sexually while upholding my position as a nudist advocate and promoting a culture of positivity, acceptance, and empowerment.

 

5. What are some obstacles you face? And how you deal with it?

Part of the following is from my nudist site 😅, but it applies here too. Being a nudist and openly expressing myself sexually are like walking on a blade… However, I think it’s not a wrong thing to do. Nudists are minorities already and I believe nudists are more open-minded (because by definition, we are not clothed-minded 🤣) as long as respect and consent are present.

The obstacles are inevitable. Pushing ideologies different from the overall consensus is always difficult and resistance is significant. Thinking about gay right movement/civil rights movement in the old days. Fortunately for me, I live in a relatively open society and I still have a place to express myself and connect to like-minded people (you ?air hug) around the world thanks to the Internet. Obstacles I face including : people make assumptions on me, saying that I’m just a horny exhibitionist trying to get off or satisfy personal kinks not a nudist. People calling me names, commenting derogatory terms, using parts of my contents to promote porn sites without me knowing, linking my works to bash minority people. The “logic” is like this : Naked guys online -> must be gay and horny -> gays are slutty and men are disgusting. Thankfully, I have some amazing people that support me and I get a say of my beliefs.

Another and I think the biggest obstacles are the battle with various video hosting platforms like pornhub/xhamster… Those platforms were abused for so many years (many illegal content ) after a recent crack down, they become “youtubized”. Now they delete content and terminate accounts to protect themselves…  for instance, indigo white

The last one is my website being bombarded with spammers and sometimes the hosting company has problems hosting anything that contains nudity. I’m just a normal person and I want to make a difference. I’m learning and trying to build my website from scratch.

Fun fact: Although I’m in my late 20s, I still have no sexual experiences. I still sometimes feel guilty masturbating. After the discovery of nudism, I started to relearn and think about myself as a human being…

6. Some other questions and facts about me

1. Does your family know that you are sex-positive? Sadly no. None of my family or friends know.
2. In case they don’t know, are you afraid that your family will know that you are a nudist? To be honest, yes. Because it’s hard to be different. Being a member of LGBTQ, conversion to another religion, marriage to a different race… etc. these things are normal and there are nothing wrong in them. However, people struggle because they are different.
3. Do you have sex/ show off yourself outside? No. because it’s illegal and content and respect are not present.
   
4. Do you have sex positive friends?Sadly no… I wish I had some.
5. If you are allowed to have sex in public like a cruise ship/ swinger club or alike would you consider that?
   Interesting. I think I will. Virtually, I’m doing those “in public” so it’s OK for me.  (I think)
6. Do you have any funny or dramatic anecdotes doing nudism?
   Actually no. I decided recently to express myself sexually online and I haven’t been to many places/haven’t met many people.
7. Would you like your partner to be a sex-positive too?
   I wish my partner is a nudist but I don’t want to force my opinion on anyone, especially the special one I love. We can talk, discuss and persuade him (or being persuaded) but most importantly, sometimes we have to agree to disagree. Everyone has their opinions. Each to its own.
8. Have you done anything sexual with guys and girls your age?
   Nope. I’d love to.
9. What do you do to promote or spread your sexual message or your own sexuality?
   I have my personal website : sexualwill.com , my youtube channel, youtube channel, xtube channe,lbryl and twitter and many content creator platforms that allow adult content like onlyfans, fansly, justforfans…. Please consider supporting me if you could. Every support is deeply appreciated. Thank you
10. Are you proud of your body? No. I’m just comfortable with and accept my body. To me, pride should be earned. If I were a professional bodybuilder, then yeah I would be proud of my body because all the training, work, strict diet and dedication that go into it. Too much unearned pride is problematic. For example, race pride and national pride.Lastly, I wanna say thank y’all for reading this 🙂 Drop me a line if you want.